I clashed a dish with anger to my younger sibling.
She never open paper box of milk.
I rubbed rice to cook, and then tried to pour water into a milk box.
However, because it was not open, it spilled out.
Therefore, my cloth got wet and I got angry.
At that time, I could not say a word instead of throwing a dish.
As a matter of fact, this stimulation is exactly same as my father does.
I felt disappointed to realize that my response to environment is inherited.
If I could complain to my sibling, it would never happen.
What can I learn from this experience?
I need to learn how to deal with anger.
I responded immediately to eliminate stress.
Stress comes from my mistakes, though.
If I was more careful, it would not happen.
I had better to care every action I take.
Sunday, December 14, 2014
Friday, December 5, 2014
How to Build Morality
How do people know what is right or wrong?
When you were a childhood, you made mistakes and your parents scolded you.
Then, you could figure out what's wrong.
In other words, your morality is based on your parents' thoughts.
However, in certain period, children notice that it is not always right.
You find out parents, most close adults, also make mistakes.
At this stage, you start to build your own morality by your choice.
Usually, it is affected by your friends or people around you.
In the U.S., university students start to live in a dorm.
That means they cannot rely on their parents any more.
Of course, they rely on their parents financially but not emotionally.
Unfortunately, most Japanese students living in urban area live with their parents.
That causes many problems such as tendency to marry later or delay of psychological weaning.
So do I. I live with my parents as like a parasitic worn. I pay neither the rent nor the food expenses.
What am I talking about? Topic is about building morality.
Therefore, what I need to do is to live by my own sake and responsibility.
So, if you avoid the morality of your parents, you ought not to live with parents.
That's what I learned today from iTunes U of psychology class.
When you were a childhood, you made mistakes and your parents scolded you.
Then, you could figure out what's wrong.
In other words, your morality is based on your parents' thoughts.
However, in certain period, children notice that it is not always right.
You find out parents, most close adults, also make mistakes.
At this stage, you start to build your own morality by your choice.
Usually, it is affected by your friends or people around you.
In the U.S., university students start to live in a dorm.
That means they cannot rely on their parents any more.
Of course, they rely on their parents financially but not emotionally.
Unfortunately, most Japanese students living in urban area live with their parents.
That causes many problems such as tendency to marry later or delay of psychological weaning.
So do I. I live with my parents as like a parasitic worn. I pay neither the rent nor the food expenses.
What am I talking about? Topic is about building morality.
Therefore, what I need to do is to live by my own sake and responsibility.
So, if you avoid the morality of your parents, you ought not to live with parents.
That's what I learned today from iTunes U of psychology class.
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